Dear Family and Friends,
"We have held 18 meetings here in about two months and have some more appointments out. We have quite a number of good friends and have been treated very well by them, often have 150 present at a meeting. Yet, some of the over-righteous people who do not come to our meetings say that we are very bad men; having a beam in their own eyes, they try to pull the mote out of others, but it is all for the best for none but the honest in heart can receive the true
Gospel and they are very scarce in these parts. There is a great many that will take us in and do all they can for us, but the Gospel is too strong for them. They want the good old-time religion (the broad road) so that no matter what they do, it's all right if they only pay the preacher. But they help the Elders to gather out the righteous and tis better for them to remain in their present condition than to receive the gospel and then turn away. Our doctrine is not popular enough, and although they cannot disprove it by the Bible, yet they think it would be impossible for the majority to be wrong. It reminds one of the Pharisees and scribes of old – Mathew 23, and ere long they will fare the same fate, if they do not repent and obey the Gospel and live up to its teachings." We ran across the foregoing in a letter that my great grandfather wrote home to his mother 130 years ago while serving his mission in the county directly to the south of us. A few generations have passed but the traditions are holding on very well. We both thought it portrays the current state of affairs here in Alabama.
Gospel and they are very scarce in these parts. There is a great many that will take us in and do all they can for us, but the Gospel is too strong for them. They want the good old-time religion (the broad road) so that no matter what they do, it's all right if they only pay the preacher. But they help the Elders to gather out the righteous and tis better for them to remain in their present condition than to receive the gospel and then turn away. Our doctrine is not popular enough, and although they cannot disprove it by the Bible, yet they think it would be impossible for the majority to be wrong. It reminds one of the Pharisees and scribes of old – Mathew 23, and ere long they will fare the same fate, if they do not repent and obey the Gospel and live up to its teachings." We ran across the foregoing in a letter that my great grandfather wrote home to his mother 130 years ago while serving his mission in the county directly to the south of us. A few generations have passed but the traditions are holding on very well. We both thought it portrays the current state of affairs here in Alabama.
Monday Sister Owens went to lunch with the sisters that serve with her in Relief Society to celebrate another one of their birthdays (I really don't know why I wasn't invited—she did tell me I'm her favorite counselor). Then President James had us track down a power bill for one of the branch members that we never see at church (except some of the times we have a pot luck after our meeting). It is too bad they never come to him until they threaten to turn off their power.
Tuesday we picked up the sisters and headed off to Bessemer for Interviews with the president. Then since it was our last district council for the transfer, we went to lunch as a district and then went back to the chapel for district council. It is a little different for us. We have been assigned to a different district this transfer. We are used to more sisters than elders and for more than a year now have had another senior couple with us in the district. Now we are in a larger district with more elders than sisters and the other senior couple was kept in our previous district. We miss seeing them once every week at district council. We also took our district picture as we always do in our last meeting before transfers (see attachment #1). It was a pretty long day by the time we got back to Demopolis.
With Thanksgiving coming next week, we spent Wednesday planning and shopping for those in the branch that will probably need a little help. The sisters scheduled an appointment for the same time that we usually have Coordination meeting so they decided to change coordination to Thursday. Then they texted us and said the appointment fell through and we could have coordination. Then they texted us and said Brother Smith said to just have it on Thursday. Then we went with the sisters to another appointment with Otis. We got there a few minutes before the sisters arrived. Otis was very cool and standoffish. The sisters shared the story of Enos from the Book of Mormon with him and we invited him to come to Stake Conference this weekend (it would be broadcast to our building in Demopolis, finally). He said he has a lot of things coming up and he wasn't sure if he would make it to church. He told us we didn't need to worry about him. It isn't really that serious, things are good. We definitely felt he was separating himself from us. He seems to be happier with the "broad way." He wouldn't pray and we asked him to kneel with us to have prayer before we left. It was very awkward but he said he would and then we all kneeled and he scooted forward on his chair but didn't kneel.
Since Sister Snarr is being transferred home next week we planned to have Pizza for them Saturday but they told us they will be in Linden for the day Saturday and wanted to do pizza on Friday. So we kind of spent the morning grating cheese and preparing toppings for the Pizza for Friday. Then we went to Greensboro for Book of Mormon class. After class we tried to contact the lady that we found last week but she wasn't home this time. Sister Borden (who seems to know everyone in Greensboro) told us she works at the Hospital. So now we know where to go looking for her the next time she isn't home. Then we came back to Demopolis for coordination. Brother Smith was excited to hear what the new vision is for our mission, combining reactivation, temple and family history work, and sharing the gospel with non-members. The missionaries are taking on a much more versatile role in all of the units now.
Friday we had the sisters over for Pizza for lunch (attachment #2). Then we were supposed to take Andrea and her mother to look at a possible new apartment. We found out that Sister Smith took them in the morning but Andrea called and said they had to have a ride to Linden to get their background check for the new landlord. So we drove them to Linden and, of course, the people who do the checks weren't there that day (I love Alabama). I guess it was all for the best anyway, because we found out today that they are moving to a different place where they have lived before.
Saturday was the leadership session and the adult evening session of stake conference. Both were very good. I went to the training session for clerks and Sister Owens went with the EQ and RS Presidents to receive training from the Stake President. In the clerk training two clerks showed up, myself and the other senior missionary in our stake. We are both going home in February. It wasn't quite as effective as the stake clerk had hoped. In Sister Owens' training the president asked for input on the challenges we face in each of the units in the stake. Sister Owens told him our hardest challenges are poverty, transportation (lack thereof), and illiteracy. President acknowledged her comment and said we just have to take baby steps. The Brother sitting behind her worked in our branch and was released the Sunday we got to the branch. He said when he was in the branch his biggest challenge was that the people he worked with just didn't want it. That truly is what we face with so many of the less active saints here. It gets a little discouraging at times.
Sunday the general session was broadcast to our building for the first time since we have been here. We actually had 33 people in attendance. That is better conference attendance than we have witnessed since we've been here. The last conferences we have only had about ten people go because of the lack of transportation. We can pick people up for meetings at our building (usually one or two trips for those who have cars—we made two trips today), but you can't do that when the meeting is two hours away. When we got there Otis was waiting in his car. I just can't figure out what is going on with him. We really didn't think he would be there. I shook his hand after the meeting and told him I was glad he came. He asked me if that was the end and I told him it was. He said, "Okay, I'm leaving now." The sisters came over to see us tonight. Sister Allen asked if I would give her a blessing. This is such a hard area for the missionaries. Sister Weaver and Sister McCreath are among the best we have had and they were both here for six months each. Sister Allen started her mission here and has been here for three transfers. We are pretty sure she will be here at least one more since Sister Snarr is going home this transfer. The end of next transfer will mark six months for Sister Allen. She was trained by the best and is an awesome missionary, herself. I'm sure she is learning some hard lessons in this area that will serve her well for the rest of her mission.
Keep the commandments and read your Book of Mormon every day, every day, every day.
We love y'all,
Elder and Sister Owens